by Dale Meredith | Jan 4, 2022 | Device Protection, Family Safety, Trending
Parental controls for the Oculus Quest? They don’t exist, but we have a few steps to make sure your family is protected while using this VR device.
If you just purchased your family an Oculus Quest One or Two, you could have just handed them a web browser and device with absolutely zero content filtering options and no parental controls. What could go wrong? We searched and searched for parental controls built into the software for the Oculus Quest, and…they don’t exist. The Oculus Quest doesn’t currently have any built-in web filter or parental controls by default, and for parents, that’s gotta be a little concerning. We wanted to create this guide to show you the best available methods for blocking and filtering explicit content on the Oculus Quest. We’ll cover what you can do as a parent in the browser settings, Facebook settings, the Oculus app, and your home environment.
Oculus Quest Browser Parental Settings
One of the most important and crucial parental control settings is the Oculus web browser. Every Oculus Quest has a fully functional web browser that cannot be disabled. There are some ways to uninstall it with SideQuest, but it is not recommended and can wreck your entire system. Worse, the web browser has no content filtering by default. To implement this content filter, you’re going to have to jump into the Oculus headset and change a few settings. If you’ve never jumped into a VR headset before, we recommend you play around in the VR environment to get familiar with the way the VR ecosystem works. It can be tricky at first, but you should be able to pick up on it fairly quickly. Once you’re inside and feel comfortable with the headset, you’re going to be met with a virtual environment. Don’t hesitate to ask your kids for help if you need it.
- From here, on your RIGHT controller, you want to hit the button that has the Oculus logo on it. This will bring up the Oculus menu.
- Once you’re in the menu, you will want to click on the Apps tab and go into Browser. This will pull up the Oculus browser.
- You’re going to change some settings here to make it safe. First and foremost, you’re going to go over to the triple dots, click on those and go into settings.
Leveraging Your Google Account For Parental Control
As a side note, you may have to sign in to your Google account to perform this content filtering option.
- Once you’re inside the settings in the Oculus browser, you’re going to make sure the default search engine is set to Google.
- Exit out of this tab by clicking little X. Go into the Search settings in your Google account and make sure you have “Safe Search” checked on.
What does this do? You do this because “Safe Search” is Google’s default content filter, which filters out explicit content like pornography. If you have this checked on, it should filter out many pornographic sites and graphic content. So, anyone that uses the Oculus Quest headset won’t be able to access questionable content. Again, this is not a perfect content filter. There are obviously a thousand other ways to access explicit content, but this is literally one of the best ways we could find to keep the bad things off of your Oculus web browser. Once you have “Safe Search” turned on, go down to the very bottom of the page and hit “Save.”
Oculus Quest Parental Control At The Wi-Fi Router Level
Leveraging Google is most likely not enough protection, so there are a couple of other workarounds you can do to prevent your child from being exposed to explicit content on the web via the Oculus Quest device. If you have a Wi-Fi router that was set up using an application on your smartphone, then most likely, that router has some sort of content filtering method built right into it. For example, on a Google Nest Router, there is a setting that, when toggled ON, blocks all adult websites and as much explicit content as Google could possibly think of. But if your Wi-Fi doesn’t have a setting like this, you can always call your internet service provider and ask them about the content filtering options they have available. You can get similar parental control features as the Google Nest Router by also using Firewalla or the Eero Mesh Wi-Fi. As a general best practice for parenting controls for your internet and devices connected to your network, we highly advise investing in one of these awesome mesh Wi-Fi routers. Not only do you get an optimized signal throughout your home, but you can also set up some effective filtering settings.
Enhanced Facebook Settings For Oculus Quest Parental Controls
Another key component to parental controls for the Oculus is the settings on the Facebook profile you’re using for your Oculus Quest headset. You are required to sign in with a Facebook account with your Oculus device. And again, it is possible to see explicit content on Facebook. We’re going to cover a handful of settings and recommendations we’d suggest making that could potentially help prevent your children from seeing explicit content on Facebook and will add another layer of protection when using this VR device. Aside from protecting your family from explicit content, these recommendations are also going to prevent your child from being preyed upon by people who use platforms like Facebook and VR chat rooms to find vulnerable children. It’s sad, but it happens.
Use Oculus Quest to sign in with your Facebook account.
Unfortunately, you will need to have a Facebook account with your Oculus Quest. This means either you or your child will have to create a Facebook account and sign in to use your Oculus Quest. Again…if you’re smart, as a parent, you will use your own Facebook account so you can monitor and control access. Warning: Do NOT make a fake Facebook account. There have been some reports that people who do this have had their Oculus Quest disabled. When this happens, you lose all of your purchases with no chance of getting a refund or getting them back. When games you purchase range from $15 to $30, that’s a hefty price tag just to create a fake account, which doesn’t provide any privacy advantages anyway. The best recommendation would be to use your personal Facebook account when setting up the Oculus Quest. Make sure the following settings are implemented. You can either do this through the Facebook mobile app or on the desktop. Navigate to the Privacy Settings tab and make sure as many things as possible are either set to “Only Me” or “Disabled.” The most important section to make sure everything is set to “Only Me” is the “How People Find and Contact You” section. You should definitely spend a bit of time looking through these various settings and getting to know what they mean and how they affect your account.
Enhanced Parental Control Settings In The Oculus App
In the Oculus Quest app, go to the settings by clicking on the top left-hand corner. Once you’re in the privacy settings, make sure that “Activity” is set to “Only Me,” your friend’s list is set to “Only Me”, your Facebook name is set to “Only Me”, and Activity Status + Push Notifications is set to “Only Me.” Now, you’re probably thinking, ‘I’m going to be a ghost on Facebook after making these adjustments.’ And you’d probably be right. But until we get built-in parental settings in the Oculus Quest environment, we will have to resort to these secondary measures to make sure we get optimal or adequate parental controls. And don’t forget, you can change these settings later. But if you’re looking for the safest and most private settings on the Oculus Quest, you’ll want to implement these.
Research Gaming Content Before You Buy
Games are another access point for potential threats and explicit content on the Oculus Quest. First off, there are a ton of great games available through the Oculus Quest store and even some indie stores like App Lab and SideQuest. We are just beginning to scratch the surface of possibility and wonder when it comes to VR gaming. But that also means enhanced threats from the dangers lurking. As of now, most of the major sources for Oculus Quest games all have a very strict no adult content policy. But who are we kidding? You need to be aware that there are game ratings for VR games as well (Mature, Teen, Everyone 10+ and Everyone). Even with those strict no adult content policies, there are still games and apps which allow people to share explicit content in-game. To keep your family safe, be sure that when you set up the headset, you install the Oculus App on your mobile device and enable the “Purchase Pin.” What this does is all purchases will require that a pin be used. Not only will this save you money from unwanted purchases, but it’ll also allow you to know all the apps and games being installed on the Oculus Quest headset. Again, a simple and quick additional layer of control. If you don’t currently have the pin setup or you didn’t set up the headset using your smartphone, don’t worry just download the Oculus app and set up the headset with it.
Be Smart. Be Aware
There are a couple of other things you can do outside of an app or some setting in the software. Talk to your kids about how they’re using the Oculus Quest device. You’ll be surprised by what revelations and intuitions you have just by simply talking to your kids about their tech habits. Another level of protection is to dedicate an area in your house where the Oculus Quest can be played. Now, this might be a little difficult at first because your family may want to watch some movies or engage in educational VR content (thank you Amazon Prime VR!). It can be uncomfortable or difficult doing that with a lot of people around. But…having a dedicated space in the home (like a commons area) where the Oculus Quest VR can be played or used is an effective parenting hack.
What Does DDID Use?
Great question; I finally came up with a system that is the best solution for our home. Not only did I use the above settings for my teen son, but I also use a Firewalla device. This device allows me to control when a device has internet access (I have rules to turn off the Oculus at 10 pm on weekdays and 11 pm on weekends), I’m able to block YouTube, Netflix, any video streaming, and I can either drop all social media connections or get specific. The Firewalla is used for all our devices to help keep our network protected and safe. The Oculus Quest also has a feature that will cast what the player is playing/doing to a TV. The DDID family requires that this feature be turned on so;
- We can watch what our kids are playing/doing.
- We can watch what our kids are playing/doing It’s psychological. People, in general, will make better choices knowing that someone might be watching.
Again, no content filter is perfect. Kids are smart. Kids can find a way. They can be really good at circumventing any measure you put in place to protect them. Even in the safest VR apps, your child could still be exposed to vulgarity or inappropriate actions of others. That is why one of the best things you can do as a parent to keep your child safe in a VR environment is to jump in and play with them.
Engage in their world. Be part of it. Be an active parent. Not a helicopter parent, but one who is smart and aware of what’s happening in their child’s lives. This is the best and safest method for you as a parent to know exactly what your child or loved one is experiencing in virtual reality.
by Dale Meredith | Jan 1, 2022 | Family Safety
My father taught me, “Nothing is ever free.” And that includes software, movies, or music via BitTorrents or pirated software.
A BitTorrent is a communication protocol for peer-to-peer file sharing (P2P), which enables users to distribute data and electronic files over the Internet. Yes, BitTorrent is a legitimate file transfer protocol, and using it — often called torrenting — is legal as long as the content can be downloaded or uploaded legally. However, using it to download copyrighted material, like a brand-new movie, is not lawful without the copyright owner’s permission.
The truth is, many people have been tricked into pirated software by the countless “free download” websites that exist on the Internet.
Now, for those who don’t understand the term pirating. Software piracy is the unauthorized use, copying, or distribution of copyrighted software. So downloading an illegal copy of a program, movie, or the latest song from Adelle is illegal and very dangerous.
While BitTorrent websites may be legal and, at times, a safe way to download permitted content, they are one of the main tools hackers and other cybercriminals use to gain access to or gain control of your systems.
As shared by Downloading Privacy The most common dangers of using Bittorrent and downloading torrents are:
• Malware and Viruses
• Cyber Attacks, Hacking
• Bandwidth Throttling and/or Monitoring by your ISP
• Legal Risk (as previously mentioned)
Most especially without using a VPN, your IP address, a unique identifier that points to your computer’s virtual location, is all a hacker needs to target your data. You put yourself at risk when you use BitTorrent to download files, as every “Peer” you connect to in your BitTorrent “Swarm” can see your IP address. A swarm is just a group of people who own or share a particular file, including you.
Let me try to explain this as clearly as possible: when you download a “free” version of Adobe Photoshop, the chances are high that there is malware hidden in the installer, just waiting to infiltrate your computer. Malware could show up as simple as tracking your browsing patterns, showing you additional and annoying pop-ups, but it can also install a backdoor on your computer. If it’s a more advanced version of the malware, it can even encrypt all the files stored on your hard drive until you pay for their software.
Malware is often injected into your system as soon as the movie launches.
Let’s talk about movies. Many people assume downloading a free movie off of a torrent is safe. Well, guess again. Then, while viewing the movie, malicious code is being executed in the background without you even knowing what is happening. Too many people get tempted by the concept of getting something for nothing. While you may think it’s pretty cool to download the latest Adelle song without having to pay for it, trust me, in the end, you’ll eventually pay for it.
And for the love of Pete, please don’t use a pirated version of an Antivirus product. #palmtoforehead!
Dale, here sharing what I know to help keep families safe and smart with the technology they use.
by Dale Meredith | Dec 22, 2021 | Family Safety, Trending
Email. We love it, and we hate it.
We love it because we can send a message to someone across the world within seconds. We hate it because 99% of the time, other people can read our emails too. An email has been one of the most successful communication tools in history, but they too can put you and your data at risk.
Here are five tips on how you can make sure you’re not one of the next email heists.
1. Don’t click on suspicious links
If it seems out of place or doesn’t seem like an actual legit link, don’t click! You know this! You’ve heard it many times! But, we still get socially engineered by the email header, and we click that link. And please teach your kids not to click on any link embedded in an email without checking with you first.
2. Use 2-Factor Authentication
Hackers and even just curious or snoopy people will use a “Forgot Password” option to get into someone’s account. You can avoid this by enabling 2-Factor Authentication. In geek speak, we call it 2FA. Honestly, enable 2FA with every account or service that supports it like Netflix, Amazon, Facebook, etc. 2-Facto Authentication adds an extra layer of security to your device, preventing hackers and those who shouldn’t be snooping into your business from getting into your accounts.
3. Enable a passcode or thumbprint on your devices
I know this sounds like another annoying step you have to do, but I promise it’s worth it in the end. If you have a passcode on your device, that means even if someone takes your phone, tablet, or computer and types in your password, they won’t be able to get into the Gmail account that is linked to it. If the device allows you to use a thumbprint or facial recognition, use it. My oldest daughter says all she wants to be left to her in my will is my thumb! She’s my Minnie-me and once she gains access to my accounts, believe me, she’ll know how to use the data and content to her advantage. Yes, I’ve taught her well!
4. Don’t open emails from people you don’t know but most importantly teach your kids not to.
Emails and texts that say ‘click here to see what you just won’ are tempting to kids, let alone us adults who’ve fallen for the gimmick ourselves a time or two. Unknown links are phishing attempts sent by others trying to access your account. A simple rule is to don’t click or even open an email from anyone you don’t know, and you should be good.
5. Avoid malicious bots by changing your password regularly on email
Bots are computer programs that operate repetitive activities or tasks over the internet. They are quickly becoming the main source of internet traffic. I read a report recently that estimated more than half of the web traffic is originating from bots. Bots are more sophisticated today than they were just yesterday and will be more sophisticated tomorrow than they are today. Of course, not all bots are bad, but we’ll discuss that another time.
Harmful bots are out there maliciously trying to use different passwords to access each website you go to, and spambots are out there posting spam all over the internet to include detrimental emails.
Dale here, or am I? Dale or a bot? You decide.
by Dale Meredith | Jul 21, 2020 | Family Safety
Truthfully, I thought email would be long retired before my grandkid’s time. But with so many kids homeschooled during the COVID Pandameic shut-down, email became necessary for kids of all ages, to stay connected to their teachers. So I have come up with 5 Things All Kids Need to Know About Emails
Even legitimate email sites like Google Mail and Yahoo opens up another weak link in the chain of digital protection for our young kids.
If you haven’t yet had ‘the talk’ with your kids about e-mail now is the time. Here are a few key points to kick-off the conversation with your kids:
- Treat everyone on the internet as strangers, even those who sound friendly.
- Never give out personal information or send a picture of you one email without permission from a parent.
- Always tell a parent or teacher if someone you don’t know reaches out to you by email.
- Always ask a parent before opening an attachment.
- Never click on a link that’s embedded in your email. Even if it says you won money or a trip.
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by Dale Meredith | Jul 21, 2020 | Family Safety
Today I am going to go over what is a Child Account on Windows and How to create a Child Account in Windows 10
There are many tools and resources parents have available to help monitor their kid’s accounts. Did you know Windows 10 allows you to create a child account? Yes, another great tool to help you monitor and manage underage kids’ online accounts.
There are a couple of options, I’ll compare both and share step by step directions to set up a child account in windows 10:
Method 1 to set up a Child Account on Windows 10
• Click on the Windows symbol located at the bottom left corner.
• Now, head to Settings.
• Select Accounts.
• Click on Family & other users.
• Below Other Users, click on +Add someone else to this PC.
• When a window pops up, you will be asked to add an e-mail address. You can ignore this by clicking below in the same window I don’t have this person’s sign-in information.
• Again, skip the step to create a Microsoft account by clicking on Add a user without a Microsoft account.
• Finally, add the person’s name when a new window pops up, showing you Create an account for this PC. You can skip entering the password for this user if you wish.
Method 2 to set up a Child Account on Windows 10
• Click on the Windows symbol located at the bottom left corner.
• Now, head to Settings.
• Select Accounts.
• Click on Family & other users.
• If you’re already signed in with your Microsoft account, you will see an option +Add a family member; otherwise, you will see an option to sign-in with a Microsoft account.
• If you don’t have an account, create a new one for yourself first.
• Select Add a child.
• Create a Microsoft account for your child.
• When they ask you for the phone number, add your phone number, not the kid’s (if the child has any).
• Now, uncheck the boxes when a new window pops up with the title See what’s most relevant to them.
• Finally, Microsoft will ask you if you want to let your kid fly on the Internet. And that’s your decision. If you want to allow your child to play games online or do some other educational stuff, click Yes; otherwise, click No.
Difference between the two methods:
• Method 1 lets you create a new separate account on your PC but doesn’t allow you to check their activities.
• Method 2 will give you an option to block your kid’s account because you are signed into your computer with your Microsoft account.
• Method 1 still gives you the same privilege or headache of reminding your kids their laptop usage is up.
• Method 2 will help you to set screen time for your kid. To do so, you will have to log in to Microsoft account online at account.microsoft.com, using the kid’s email address. The best thing is that you can choose various screen time for daily use; for example, Monday, 30 minutes, 5:00 PM to 5:30 PM; Tuesday, 2 hours, 1:00 PM to 3:00 PM, and so on.
As always, my reminder to parents is that It’s OK to set boundaries with when and how their kids use their tech devices.
Of course, this doesn’t replace having many conversations with our kids about internet safety and these settings won’t always block all inappropriate sites, but using parental controls and child settings is a good place to start.
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by Dale Meredith | Jul 10, 2020 | Family Safety
Educate, Engage, and Prepare. Everywhere you look, you see kids glued to their devices. Whether it’s a cellphone, tablet, or even a laptop, they are mesmerized. And, yes even our own kids are just as guilty.
Kids on devices have become the norm as gone are the days when someone judges you because your 3-year-old is playing a game on your phone while at the grocery store. Playing that game is better than the alternative, especially if it’s nap time.
The older kids get the more we as parents need to worry. Let’s say age 7 on up, as they become more adept at finding their way around online we as parents need to engage more in what our kids are watching or searching for. Now don’t get me wrong, I know there are a lot of kids out there just playing your typical games kids that age play. Right?
But what about the ones that aren’t? The ones bored with the games they have loaded. The ones who are just innocently curious as to what else can they watch or who else can they connect with.
I hear from parents almost daily asking for help on how to be more aware of what’s going on as so many slips right by. Parents with kids who made new friends online, but who the new friends are unknown. One parent, completely unaware, found online gambling with a fake profile had been taking up her son’s time. Another son had set up an adult profile to connect with older women. What starts out as curiosity and boredom can quickly turn to high concern situations that invite potential harm to our kids’ lives.
As parents, we all want to trust that our kids are making the right choices when we aren’t watching. But trusting our kids to ‘always “do the right thing” online is like putting a giant ice cream sundae right in front of them and telling them not to eat it; then leaving the room.
How many of us can honestly say our child wouldn’t touch it? Heck, I doubt I could avoid eating it.
Technology is at most all kids’ fingertips and there is a wide world of predators, scammers, hackers, adult content sites, and clickbait ads just waiting to grab a child’s attention.
My mantra is and always will be Educate, Engage, and Prepare. As parents we are responsible to EDUCATE ourselves on the latest and greatest apps, games, and websites our children use and visit, we must ENGAGE in how our kids are using their devices and we must talk to our kids to PREPARE them at young ages what the dangers are and how to best avoid sites that are harmful to their young minds.
We must talk to our kids about internet safety. It is OK to remove the temptation. Have a cut-off time for devices and do not allow your child access overnight. Limit your child’s screen time and set clear rules and boundaries. Install antivirus software and set parental controls. Review your child’s browser history and let them know you will be monitoring everything.
Having access to the internet can be great when used responsibly. But sometimes it’s a little too much, too soon for our younger children.
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